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Tussen de lakens met Senna (35): “Mijn man moest wennen aan mijn ‘autoseks-fetish’

Mama zijn is zwaar. Seks hebben? Dat is een apart level. Kinderen, een druk huishouden en een lijf dat nooit meer hetzelfde is… klinkt bekend? Tijd om eerlijk te zijn: ja, je mist soms die sexy vibes van vroeger, en ja, dat merk je in bed. In Tussen de Lakens praten moeders zonder filter over alles wat er onder de lakens gebeurt: de gênante momenten, de stiekeme fantasieën én de momenten dat het wél geweldig voelt.

Deze week: Senna (35), samen met Evert en moeder van twee. Over een relatie die na de kinderen even op standje overleven stond, een lichaam waar ze opnieuw haar weg in moest vinden… en hoe een onverwachte plek haar seksleven weer een flinke boost gaf. “Ik dacht dat dat soort spontaniteit achter me lag. Blijkbaar dus niet.”

Hoe een gewone parkeerplek ineens spannend werd

Het begon totaal niet gepland. Geen groot idee, geen fantasie die ik al jaren had. Gewoon een avond, de kinderen lagen eindelijk op bed, mijn moeder sliep ook bij ons wegens prive redenen en we reden nog even snel ergens heen en er hing zo’n… sfeer. Je kent het wel. Zo’n blik die nét iets te lang blijft hangen.

Evert grapte nog: “We zijn echt oude mensen geworden hè.” En precies dát moment deed iets. Alsof mijn hoofd dacht: wacht even, dat zijn we dus niet.

seks na stoppen met pil illustratie van de pil
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Tussen de Lakens met Maya (42):  “Stoppen met de pil veranderde mijn seksleven compleet”

We parkeerden. Bleven zitten. En ineens voelde die auto totaal niet meer praktisch, maar juist… spannend. Sindsdien kijk ik nooit meer hetzelfde naar een lege parkeerplek.

Langzaam klom dat cijfer weer omhoog. Nu? 8,5. Soms een 9

De seks nu en toen

Voor de kinderen gaf ik onze seks een 8. Gewoon goed. We zaten in een fijne flow. Na de bevallingen zakte dat eerlijk gezegd naar een 5. Ik was moe, mijn hoofd zat vol en mijn lichaam voelde niet meer als van mij.

Alles werd… functioneel. Maar juist die onverwachte momenten, zoals in de auto, brachten iets terug wat ik kwijt was: spanning. Spelen. Iets doen wat niet gepland is.

Langzaam klom dat cijfer weer omhoog. Nu? 8,5. Soms een 9, als we weer zo’n moment hebben waarop we gewoon denken: waarom ook niet.

Ik ben minder bezig met hoe het eruitziet, en meer met hoe het voelt

Mijn lichaam: minder strak, meer lef

Ik ben niet ineens verliefd geworden op mijn lijf na twee kinderen. Mijn buik is zachter, mijn lichaam anders. Dat is gewoon zo. Maar wat er wel veranderd is? Mijn houding.

Ik ben minder bezig met hoe het eruitziet, en meer met hoe het voelt. En misschien is dat wel precies waarom het weer leuk werd. Omdat ik het losliet. Omdat het niet perfect hoeft. Evert heeft daar trouwens nooit moeilijk over gedaan. Die keek me nog steeds hetzelfde aan. Ik moest alleen zelf weer even inhalen.

net gescheiden en daten illustratie van telefoon met datingapp erop
Opgebiecht

Opgebiecht: “Wat begon als een grapje na mijn scheiding, liep compleet uit de hand”

ziektewet gezin geld foto van familie die spaart
Het huishoudboekje

Het Huishoudboekje van Danique (36): “Sinds ik in de ziektewet zit, moeten we echt op alles letten”

zwanger voor partner illustratie van zwangere vrouw op roze achtergrond
Opgebiecht

Opgebiecht: ik ben zwanger, maar vooral omdat mijn partner zo graag vader wil worden

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